We are Eastern Orthodox Christians, and our Lenten season requires a vegan fast. I'm not always very good about keeping the proper fasts, but this year I decided I was going to do it. I was 33 and starting to realize the value of my health and youth. My youngest child was 7 years old and I could no longer blame my size on having "just had a baby". I was unhappy with the way I looked. I was unhappy with the way I felt, and I knew I had to fix it now. For years I had been saying I would get healthy before it was too late, but when is it "too late"?
My genetics leave me predisposed to weight issues and health problems associated with weight issues. I had always promised myself I would beat the odds, and I wouldn't fall into the trap my heredity had set up for me. That day was always down the road, and I kept putting it off, because I knew it would be really difficult to give up the foods I knew were not good for me.
Along came Lent toward the end of February this year.
I began my Lenten fast casually and without much thought.
My birthday is in the second week of March, which was about 2-3 weeks into the Lenten fast. A couple friends got together and made it a really wonderful birthday for me. I decided to go off fast for the day, and had cheese pizza, birthday cake, and "crack".
It was a very happy birthday for me and I felt a lot of love. :)
The next day I woke up with an awful headache and felt nauseous. I was worried I had a virus. As the day went on, I didn't get sicker, and I felt similarly the next day, except the headache had become a migraine. Then I realized that this was the first headache I had had since I started Lenten fast. *lightbulb moment*
Before this I was getting headaches about 70% of the time, and migraines about 20-40% of the time. The migraines were typical and debilitating. Luckily, I work from home and have co-workers who were understanding and would help fill in the gaps during my down days. I could usually get rid of the worst part of the migraines with ibuprofen, but I would need to take 800-1200mg to take the edge off. Of course that was way too much, and I knew if I kept that up for too many years I would do serious damage to my internal organs.
Suddenly realizing that I had not had a headache in a few weeks, and then having one for a few days was enough to make me take this food elimination thing more seriously! Almost anything was worth not having any more headaches! I had suffered from them as long as I could remember. I was back on the vegan wagon!
The last week of March we went on a cruise. It was our first cruise and I was getting things ready the week before. Part of my usual vacation preparation routine was working hard to try to get rid of the acne on my face. This time I didn't have any acne, and it was the first time I could remember having clear skin since before puberty. It felt so good!!
During that cruise I decided I was going to stay vegan during the regular meals, but was open to eating meat/dairy for a few special meals, and that's what I did. The ship's enormous buffet had plenty of vegan options for me, and I ate a lot of curries and naan. I didn't feel deprived at all and enjoyed my meals. We had reservations for a couple nice dinners in the nicer restaurants on the ship, and I allowed myself to eat what I wanted during those dinners, but tried to be careful with consuming dairy. I did have
crème brûlée once and had some amazing steak at Qsine. The great thing about this restaurant is everything is served in tiny portions, so I didn't eat too much of any of the foods I am sensitive to.
It was really great and I was able to have enough of a treat to feel like I had been spoiled, but little enough to not feel icky.
And so began my journey into eliminating foods from my diet, then reintroducing them and monitoring how my body reacted.